So, a week ago or so, hubby and I were having a long discussion about book marketing. He's incredibly good at pointing out certain things that most people may not notice, and made a comment that stuck with me: "your blog and other media stuff is directed a lot toward other authors--your online community you hang out with. Not your readers."
Sometimes I really hate it when he's right.
But, here's the thing, I like my blog the way it is. It's taken me ages to get people seeing it, along with all my other media outlets. Lots and lots of hours have gone into making them what they are. So, yeah, I'm not about to give them up. But I do want to start having more reader-related posts. And this is what I plan on starting today. I hope you'll bear with me, and maybe have something to chime in along the way!
The Sary Society books have a different kind of being in them--I'll freely admit I made them up--but they have some commonalities with guardian angels. They're around to help people in need, mostly those who are contemplating suicide, though they get caught up in other things as well. Which got me thinking about people who have stepped in and helped me in my life, either out of the blue, or because they're just awesome friends. I want to devote posts to those people who have been a "Sary" and helped me, or someone else, out.
Today, I wanted to share a story about one instance where I seriously needed some extra help, and really received it *big* time. It was January three years ago. A rainy Northern California afternoon, the weekend. Hubby and I were planning on seeing a movie, but first we went out to my mother's ranch to check on her animals as she was out of town. We drove home via the back country roads through the fields.
The intersection. |
A miracle in and of itself, a police car and ambulance were just down the road and were there in minutes. We were put into ambulances and whisked away to separate hospitals--me with a broken leg and hubby with untold injuries. (Incidentally, I remember being pissed at the lady who blew the stop sign going about 60mph--it's a good thing I couldn't walk...)
What happens when a BMW doing 60 blows through a stop sign and nails your CRV. |
That's when a familiar face appeared and I about cried with happiness. A woman I knew from the church I used to attend was working in the ER that night. She'd always been someone I loved talking to, and had been one of the youth leaders from when I was younger. Her husband had been our bishop. The fact she was still at work, and happened to see my name, was a total miracle.
She helped me find pants after they cut my jeans off, get home, find out where hubby had been taken, and drove me all the way to Sacramento to collect him, having sent her husband on ahead.
I honestly don't know how I would have survived that night without her. She was honestly an angel that night. I can't thank her enough. While the accident and all that resulted from it was pretty horrific (another 6 inches into the intersection and there's a very good chance hubby wouldn't have made it), I can't help remembering that night with a bit of lightness thanks to her help.
Has anyone else had a good Sary/guardian angel story they want to share? (I'd love others to join in with blog posts, and there's a few of you I might be emailing!!)
What an amazing story! So glad you both turned out all right(after some painful healing, I'm sure). And please tell me the lady in the BMW stopped, right? Yay for people like the woman working in the ER!
ReplyDeleteThankfully the BMW lady did stop--she kind of had to as her car was massively damaged as well. Of course, she walked away without any injuries... Definitely glad for awesome ER people though!
DeleteAn astonishing story, Meradeth!
ReplyDeleteDefinitely! Thanks :)
DeleteMeradeth, I remember you telling me about this when we were talking about Adam and ambulances and so forth, but to see the actual picture of the crash - well, it gives me chills. Thank God that you and your husband were able to recover from your injuries, that's all I can say.
ReplyDeleteI like your idea of pointing out the Sary influence in your life through a series of posts. We all need to stop and be thankful for the people who appear in our lives right when we need them the most.
I completely agree! I really want to do this more :)
DeleteI was having a really down day and was trudging across a parking lot on my way to work. A homeless looking man spoke to me. "You look beautiful today, young lady," he said. For some reason it struck me exactly where I needed it. When I turned to thank him, he had completely vanished. Poof. Gone. Just gone. I've always thought he was an angel.
ReplyDeleteAnd what a scary, but awesome bit of history behind your Sary stories. Glad you two did okay.
Okay, that is SO cool! JRo, I'm so totally going to hit you up for a post one of these days :)
DeleteOMG, Mer!! So thankful that lady was there.
ReplyDeleteOk, recently, I had a total meltdown, a "crying in my lunch" episode at the mall. I texted my best friend about it. She asked me which mall I was at, which I thought was a weird question. I told her, and she said, "I'm at the same mall right now." Wut? We both live in a town 30 minutes from this mall. What are the odd that my best friend would be in the same mall as me when I needed her most??
And totally thankful you were both ok!!! SO SCARY!
DeleteThat is so, so amazing. A total "meant to be" moment there. And I definitely think you need to do a post!! :)
DeleteOmg, that is really an amazing and scary Story! Amazing because of the ´lady who visited you when you needed someone the most, and scary because that accident WAS bad. I 'm so glad you and your hubby turned out okay. : *hugs*
ReplyDeleteAngels live among us. :D And I'm a HUGE fan of the Sary in your books. :)
So glad to hear you're enjoying Homecoming :D
Homecoming it awesome! I'm *almost* finished--looking forward to sitting in the sunshine and finishing it this afternoon :)
DeleteWow! What an amazing story. I am so sorry about the accident- it sounds terribly scary and dangerous. I am glad you and your husband turned out to be okay (for the long term). :) Thank goodness for the wonderful woman from your church. It does seem she was there at just the right time. We all need people/angles like that in our lives.
ReplyDeleteI will have to think about any stories I can share. Right now- my brain is still stuck on the story you shared!
Thanks for sharing our great news and we are also so excited to be spreading the love for Colors Like Memories. :)
Thanks so much for your help spreading the word!! And you'll definitely have to share a story sometime :)
DeleteWhat a horrible experience. I can't even imagine it, although I can picture it through your post. I'm glad someone familiar recognized your name and helped you so much.
ReplyDeleteI've had times when someone has stepped in and helped me out tremendously.
Sometime you'll have to share an experience with us! :)
DeleteOh my goodness - what a horrific thing to happen! So so glad you and hubby are now recovered! Oh dear! :-( Yay for your blessed guardian angel friend who was there when you most needed a friendly kind face! Take care
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Thanks!! It was definitely a complete blessing to have her there :)
DeleteIf anybody ever needed a guardian angel...wow. Thanks for sharing this with us. And as for the marketing -- yep. Wish there was a better way to reach the millions of readers out there instead of fellow writer/bloggers. Not that there's anything wrong with fellow writer/bloggers; they're pretty awesome, I think.
ReplyDeleteDefinitely nothing wrote with fellow writers or bloggers--I love you guys! Just thinking of tweaking a little to attract more readers :)
DeleteGlad you are okay now, but what a horrible thing to happen.
ReplyDeleteIt was definitely crazy!
DeleteWhat a story, Meradeth! Certainly there were angels there for you and your hubby that night. So happy you both ended up being okay.
ReplyDeleteWe were definitely blessed that night! (And I'm totally going to be hitting you up for a blog feature sometime...if you're interested! :)
DeleteDefinitely! Just let me know when. :)
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